The Myth of Ram and Sita's Child Marriage

Ajit Singh02 Jan 2024 • 1 min read

02 Jan 2024 • 1 min read

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Unraveling the Misconceptions Surrounding Ram and Sita's Marriage

The tale of Lord Ram and Sita from the Indian epic, Valmiki Ramayan, has been cherished for centuries. However, there have been instances where misinterpretations and false narratives have crept into the narrative, leading to misconceptions about their marriage, specifically concerning Sita's age. In this article, we aim to expose the falsehoods surrounding the belief that Ram and Sita's marriage occurred when Sita was merely six years old.

Debunking the Misconceptions:

Arnayakand of Valmiki Ramayan (47th Sarga, 4th Shloka)

- False propagandists often point to a particular verse in the Arnayakand to argue that Sita, in the captivity of Ravan, stated that she spent 12 years at Maharaj Dashrath's Mahal after marriage. This is misleading, as a closer examination reveals that her words are taken out of context.

Manipulation of Shlokas (47th Sarga, 10th Shloka)

- Another claim involves the 10th shloka of the same sarga, where Sita supposedly mentions her age at the time of marriage and Ram's age. This distortion is used to argue that Sita was only six years old during the wedding. However, a careful analysis reveals that these verses have been manipulated to fit a false narrative.

Verification of Gita Press Valmiki Ramayan

- Supporters of the misconception often rely on the Gita Press Valmiki Ramayan, claiming that it verifies the age difference. However, this edition doesn't adequately explore the historical and cultural context of the time, leading to misinterpretations.

Bengal Sanskaran Perspective

- The 47th Sarga and the 4th and 10th shlokas, when viewed from the Bengal Sanskaran perspective, provide a different interpretation. Sita mentions spending one year at Raja Dashrath's Mahal after marriage, indicating a more mature age.

Cultural Context and Upnayan Sanskaram

- In the Kshatriya kul, it is customary for the upnayan sanskaram (sacred thread ceremony) to take place after 11 years. Both boys and girls then pursue education at a gurukul for shastra and sastra knowledge. This ritual further dispels the notion that Sita was merely six years old at the time of her marriage.

Addressing Conflicting Points:

Ayodhyakand Sarga 20, 45th Shloka:
- A critical reference from Gita Press Valmiki Ramayan itself, in Ayodhyakand Sarga 20, 45th shloka, disproves the claim of Ram's marriage at the age of 13. Kousalya mentions that after Ram's upnayan, 17 years have passed, placing Ram's age at 27 when he left for vanwas. This contradicts the notion of Ram marrying at the age of 13.

Conclusion:

The alleged child marriage of Ram and Sita is based on misinterpretations, selective readings, and an oversight of cultural and contextual nuances within Valmiki Ramayan. By carefully examining the shlokas and references from Gita Press Valmiki Ramayan itself, it becomes evident that the claims of Sita being six years old at the time of marriage and Ram being 13 are unfounded. It is crucial to approach these ancient texts with a nuanced understanding to preserve the authenticity of cultural narratives. For video visit here : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TizaHAG-0fY All thanks to Real Intenstion for adding this point in society.

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